Be Open to Mistakes in 2012
Mr. Stanton was my fifth grade teacher. A World War II vet, he had lost a leg in the war. Whether his replacement leg was made of wood or something else was the topic of much discussion among us 11-year-olds.
Whatever the new leg was made of, neither the amputation nor the prosthetic hampered him much. As I remember, he rarely sat in class. Step-drag, step-drag, he often limped up and down the rows of desks and chairs – his suit jacket unbuttoned and flapping as he progressed – all the while quizzing us or checking our work or enlisting us in a mandatory end-of-the-day singalong. Every day Mr. Stanton would lower the record player’s needle onto a vinyl record and for the last 15 minutes of class we sang with him leading us in a booming tenor voice. Joshua Fought the Battle of Jericho, My Bonnie Lies Over the Ocean, Daisy – we belted out those songs and more, and as we did, shy students got a voice, domineering students felt a little less secure, and people who otherwise weren’t friends found one thing in common: singing.
As memorable as all this was – the wooden leg, the baggy suit coat, the great equalizing effect of music – Mr. Stanton is on my mind now because of something he once said that I had a reason to remember just recently.
“Some of you,” he said, “are natural learners. The work, the right answers come easily to you.
“Others have to plug away. The work doesn’t come easily, you may make mistakes. But if you keep plugging away despite the mistakes, you will have learned a great deal.”
Well, I made a huge mistake while preparing our Christmas dessert on the Saturday before the holiday Sunday. And I made the mistake while doing something I’ve warned readers not to do several times in this very blog. I didn’t follow my own advice, which was probably the dumbest mistake I could make, and one that led to wasting a lot of good ingredients and my time. Shaming.
But only briefly.
It was only dessert, I told myself after a short period of grieving the results of my stupid, stupid errors. I also reminded myself that I had time to make another dessert on Christmas Day, and so I did. A different, better, edible one. My daughter wandered into the kitchen as I was well into the second effort. She asked what I was up to and I told her everything that had happened.
“You,” she said when I finished explaining, “are indefatigable.” She said it two more times.
Sometimes I am, I thought to myself as she left the room. Indefatigable in dessert, in work, in life, willing to keep going even if the custard doesn’t set or someone rejects a piece of writing or my character or psyche needs a bit of work.
In this new year, I wish you all to be happy and healthy. I also wish for you to try and fail and try again tirelessly as you reach for the best in everything you do.
Falafel, Not Hamburgers
My son has been clamoring for homemade hamburgers since arriving home for his winter break. For the burgers we use really good ground beef from Tendercrop Farm, and I’m usually as big a fan of these as everyone else here at home. But not this week, not after we spent a couple of days polishing off an equally fine quality tenderloin roast from Butcher Boy in North Andover.
The family had burgers; I had chickpea fritters, aka falafel, made flavorful with cumin, cilantro, chives, and lots and lots of fresh garlic.
Crispy outside, creamy smooth inside, the spice tamed by tangy yogurt sauce, give these patties a try when you crave a substitute for meat.
For the patties:
- (1) 15 ounce can of chickpeas (garbanzos) drained (or about 1 1/2 cups cooked chickpeas, if used dried beans)
- 1 1/2 Tbsp. flour
- 2 Tbsp. cilantro leaves, chopped
- 2 Tbsp. roughly chopped chives
- 1 tsp. ground cumin
- 1 large egg, beaten
- olive oil
For the sauce:
- 1/2 cup plain Greek yoghurt
- 2 Tbsp. cilantro, chopped
- 2 garlic cloves, peeled and smashed
- 2 tsp. lemon juice
- 1/4 tsp. cayenne pepper, or to taste
- oil for frying
- salt and pepper
- pita bread, tomato, lettuce for serving
Make the yoghurt sauce first. Combine the yoghurt, cilantro, garlic cloves, lemon juice and cayenne pepper in the bowl of a food processor fitted with a metal blade, or in the glass jar of a blender. Mix well to chop the vegetables and blend with the yoghurt. Taste and salt and pepper the sauce as needed. Set aside to chill.
Clean the food processor or blender. Add to the work bowl fitted with blade the chickpeas, flour, cilantro, chives, cumin and egg.
Process to blend well. Drizzle in a few drops of olive oil if the mixture looks dry or stiff.
Heat either vegetable or olive oil in a large skillet over medium high heat until very hot but not smoking. Form small patties with the chickpea mixture using either a small scoop or tablespoon.
Flatten balls slightly into patties. Slide these gently into the hot oil, six patties at a time, and fry until golden on both sides. The recipe makes about 12 in all.
To serve, place two or three patties into a pita. Add lettuce, tomato and yoghurt sauce to taste, and enjoy.
©2011 Jane A. Ward










I love this whole entry. Thank you for sharing.
Ok, so now I have a great recipe for the 8 cups of slow cooked chickpeas I made yesterday! My daughter is a vegetarian and I’m always looking for something new. I love falafel, but I’ve left it to Organic Garden Cafe to make them for me. UNTIL now! Yummmmm
Happy New Year!
~K
Really easy, and I hope your daughter loves them. Happy, happy new year to you too!
Very inspiring words!
Thank you, Sheila.
Author Jane …….my friend and HERO! A very happy New Year to you!
Happy New Year, David! I hope you are having a wonderful evening, see you later in January!
OMG…I remember Mr. Stanton and I always talk about how he went around the room and labeled all of us either “naturals” or “pluggers”…something that no teacher would dare do these days! Makes you think about how our perspectives have changed…back then everyone wanted to be labeled the “natural” but I think now, the “pluggers” are really the winners…
Thanks for sharing this Jane…and Happy 2012!!!!
Eat well-
Faith
I totally agree with you – there is such value at having to work away at attaining a goal or reaching an understanding. Happy 2012 to you and the whole clan! I hope it is a terrific one, filled with joy and wonder.
Lovely. And tasty. Must try the recipe. Happy New Year!
Happy New Year to you too! I’m not much of a resolution maker, but I am resolved to seeing more of my local blogger pals in 2012.
Happy New Year Jane! I wish you an even more abundant 2012 and I think I may just make falafel today.
Best to you and the family, Tammy. I am really looking forward to new challenges and new directions ahead. Enjoy that falafel!
If it makes you feel any better, I threw out two batches of experimental cupcakes last week…….and I agree with your daughter! You have to make a lot of mistakes and do a lot of trial and error before you come up with something that is truly satisfying! Happy New Year Jane!
Yes, trial and error is the process. Thanks for sharing your cupcake experience, Laurie. It’s as important to talk about the mistakes as it is the successful results. Often the errors lead to developing something really wonderful.